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That person needs to come closer, stay, commit, be with you….really?
He traveled to her city only for business. It was unknown when he would next be in town. This young woman had been in this long-distance volatile on-off-on-off relationship for almost 6 years. He should be different than he is. He should commit to me.
He should stay with me. He should make me a priority. He should want to marry me. He should move in with me. I must admit I had visions of how tortured she was and how much easier it would be to stop. Even wondering how someone could be so needy, or demanding, and not be able apparently to move to any other relationship that was up close in the same town.
And then I remembered how her voice was mine. Yikes again. I remember. True, true, true, true. How do you react when you believe he should stay, commit, move in, want to marry….. I remembered myself how dreadful that feeling was, and how false it turned out to be. I listened to her describe her feeling of seeing the absent space where his shoes had been, his coat had hung. I love that The Work simply offers this question. My job is to facilitate, to ask, and to listen.
Who would we be without our disturbance, our insisting that it be other than it is? Who would we be without our advice for other people? No right or wrong answer. Simply a question, waiting for us to use our imagination for something more expansive than what we currently envision. The young woman took a deep breath, head hung down with her eyes closed. I could see on my skype screen behind her in the background the very door I imagined her companion had left through, with the pretty hooks lined up for coats.
She described easy days when she worked, studied, hung out with friends. Letting him go. Happy to have spent some time with him. I should commit to me. I should stay with me. I should make me a priority. I should want to marry me. I should move in with me. I remember discovering these turnarounds myself in the midst of a heavy, powerful sense of wanting it from the other.
Where was it written that love must come from only one person? Or from anything pre-defined at all? He should NOT commit to me. He should NOT stay with me. He should NOT make me a priority.
He should NOT want to marry me. He should NOT move in with me. He should leave me. Could these be just as true? Could there be benefits? I know for myself, if I had gotten what I wanted, I would not have wanted it. I already had evidence. It was perfect the way it was. The distance was beyond important. It saved my life turning in a difficult direction. Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
Blessings on all those who believe someone should care more about them, come closer, commit, not leave. May we all see that the attention and love we want is not within that other person. It is in the divine, in ourselves, in the very breath we breathe.
Life is designed for mates…. Thanks Grace! Will it ever get easier? Loved it Grace. Loved sitting with the toghtness in my belly heart and throat as these beliefs are seen. Your email address will not be published. Yes, I would like to receive emails from Work With Grace.
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Byron Katie on Love, Sex and Relationships
Defense is the first act of war. When people used to say, "Katie, you don't listen," I would immediately bristle and respond, "Of course I listen! How dare you say that! Who do you think you are?
He traveled to her city only for business. It was unknown when he would next be in town. This young woman had been in this long-distance volatile on-off-on-off relationship for almost 6 years.
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Простите. Я был ослеплен своими амбициями. Стоя над Хейлом и стараясь унять дрожь, Сьюзан услышала приближающиеся шаги и медленно обернулась. В проломе стены возникла фигура Стратмора. Он был бледен и еле дышал. Увидев тело Хейла, Стратмор вздрогнул от ужаса.
Беккер обернулся как во сне. - Senor Becker? - прозвучал жуткий голос. Беккер как завороженный смотрел на человека, входящего в туалетную комнату. Он показался ему смутно знакомым. - Soy Hulohot, - произнес убийца. - Моя фамилия Халохот.
Коммандер. Выключите. Трудно даже представить, что происходит там, внизу.
И с успехом его выдержал. Ненависть в его сердце уступила место преданности Будде. Еще через четыре месяца Энсей Танкадо приступил к работе в Отделении криптографии Агентства национальной безопасности США.
Мы решили уйти. Я не видела смысла впутывать моего спутника, да и самой впутываться в дела, связанные с полицией. Беккер рассеянно кивнул, стараясь осмыслить этот жестокий поворот судьбы. Она отдала это чертово кольцо.
Коммандер не отпускал. Она попробовала закричать, но голос ей не повиновался. Ей хотелось убежать, но сильные руки тянули ее. - Я люблю тебя, - шептал коммандер. - Я любил тебя .
Все. Не упустите. Даже клочка бумаги. - Где теперь это кольцо? - спросил Беккер. Лейтенант глубоко затянулся.
Зрение его несколько прояснилось, и ему удалось разобрать буквы. Как он и подозревал, надпись была сделана не по-английски. Беккер долго вглядывался в текст и хмурил брови. И ради этого стоило убивать.